Shaney's 1:1 guidance & mentoring is a loving, somatic focused and honest space for those who are wanting to more fully meet themselves.

If your system does not feel safe, everything in your life is affected.

Your relationships.
Your sexuality.
Your ability to speak, choose, create, and move forward.
Your capacity to feel love without fear sitting underneath it.

Living in fear, contraction, or collapse is not just uncomfortable. It is expensive.
It costs you intimacy.
It costs you presence.
It costs you aliveness.
It costs you trust in yourself.

You are not failing at life. Your nervous system is overwhelmed and has learned to stay on guard. Steadying yourself without diminishing your creative wildness is a practice more simple than you might think, it comes back to learning how to be with what is felt in the body so those feelings can naturally complete.

This work is about helping your system metabolise what it has been holding so you can build real self safety AND sovereignty.

This is slow, precise work that trains your system into stronger self holding, so you are no longer ruled by fear responses in relationship, sexuality, or daily life.

So you can stay present when things intensify instead of collapsing or armouring and protecting.
So love can return to the places that shut down because it didn’t feel safe to stay honest.

This has been the most important work of my life, how to get safe with me and i want this for you.

These sessions are feeling and focusing oriented, a method that is spacious in allowing your system to be with and metabolise what IS so you can get present and awaken the vitality within.

Heres what you can expect in our 1.1 container

Deepen your ability to be with the different parts of self, lovingly
Receive clear, direct feedback on how you relate to your sexual current and life force
Unhook childhood patterning that is still running your choices, relationships, and self trust
Learn to listen to your body, desire, and heart as real information rather than overriding
Practice ways to down regulate, self soothe, and stabilise your system when it matters
If you are seeking skilled, relational support to strengthen your relationship with yourself, this work supports you to inhabit your life with more presence, agency, and love
Learn to mother yourself in the ways you needed

What others are saying...

“Something I can say without hesitation, is that Shaney is someone who really cares about helping others grow, and desires to share from a place of deep authenticity. She is a natural Initiator and I’ve both experienced and witnessed how her essence and reflections she offers, helps people be more of themselves in the world”

Aleira

"The first time I came across shaney and her work, I felt liberated, passionate, intrigued and so full inside that I had found something that I had been looking for. I knew from then I had to meet her and work with her”

Lily

"Shaney is an honourable and brilliant teacher. She has an uncanny ability to articulate the value of her work; work that is archaic and deeply relevant, dark and light, creative and destructive. She helped me understand duality and to appreciate the dance between the opposing energies within us—that place in-between which is so hard to access"

Regina