The Erotic Art of Loving Men Without Losing Yourself
 A self-paced erotic education for women who want to love men deeply, fuck with heart, remain soft, and still belong completely to themselves.
Soft heart. Strong container. Wild body.
There is an art to loving men.
Not performing for them.
Not mothering them.
Not contorting yourself into the woman you think they want.
Not withholding your love to maintain the upper hand.
And not dissolving your entire identity into the relationship.
Actually loving them.
Learning the man in front of you.
Learning how he receives love.
Being interested in his heart, his body, his sex, his desires, his difference.
Letting yourself adore him.
Letting yourself be affected by him.
Bringing generosity, play, eroticism, tenderness and devotion into relationship...without leaving yourself behind.
This is the territory of LOVER GIRL.
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SHE LOVES DEEPLY. BUT SHE BELONGS TO HERSELF.
Are you a woman who...Â
- Loves men deeply but sometimes loses yourself in the loving?
- Wants to remain soft, open-hearted and devoted while having strong boundaries and self-possession?
- Has done the “I don't need a man” thing and is ready for a kind of strength that doesn't require hardness?
- Gets caught in jealousy, intrusive thoughts, comparison or rehearsing heartbreak that hasn't happened?
- Becomes spiky, critical, cold or withholding when underneath it all you're actually hurt or longing for closeness?
- Wants to express your desires honestly without turning them into expectations or tests of his love?
- Wants to hold yourself when you don't get your preference without making it mean you aren't loved?
- Wants to be sexually liberated, playful and wild while remaining emotionally contained?
- Wants to integrate sex and heart and become a more present, generous and exceptional lover?
- Wants to deeply know and tend to your pussy, your pleasure and the erotic world of your beloved?
- Wants more romance, beauty, ritual, love spells, sensuality and everyday magic in the way you love?
- Wants to surrender control, trust love to lead, and allow love to transform you without consuming you?
01 — A SOFT HEART + STRONG CONTAINER
Learn to love deeply without losing yourself—developing boundaries, self-possession and emotional containment without becoming hard, defended or closed to love.
02 — THE ART OF LOVING HIM WELL
Become more skilful in love and intimacy: expressing desire without demand, understanding your beloved, bringing generosity and play into relationship, and integrating sex + heart.
03 — A RETURN TO THE LOVER IN YOU
Simple teachings, rituals and embodied practices to return to whenever you've forgotten yourself—tending your heart, mind, soma, sexuality and relationship while allowing love to become something you practise and create.
Aleira
“Something I can say without hesitation, is that Shaney is someone who really cares about helping others grow, and desires to share from a place of deep authenticity. She is a natural Initiator and I’ve both experienced and witnessed how her essence and reflections she offers, helps people be more of themselves in the world”
Lauren
"There is something really alchemical about Shaney's work that always allows me to drop in deeper into my desires and reclaim them. I have reclaimed so many aspects of Womanhood in her containers, like the parts I was ashamed of and the parts I was never introduced to before”
Regina
"Shaney is an honourable and brilliant teacher. She has an uncanny ability to articulate the value of her work; work that is archaic and deeply relevant, dark and light, creative and destructive. She helped me understand duality and to appreciate the dance between the opposing energies within us—that place in-between which is so hard to access"
 Shaney Marie guides women to inhabit their bodies as nature, transmitting a deep & rich opening towards the embrace of an ancient feminine wisdom; held inside the body of woman.
A devotee & initiator of the deep feminine that is re-emerging on the planet, Shaney creates & leads online courses & retreats; whilst supporting other women to step into their own signature leadership.
Shaney has 15 years of experience in the field of erotic dance, neo tantric arts, transformational work and leadership.Â
LIMITED SPACES
This course is designed to be intimate therefore there is only 20 spaces. If you are in the USA and would like to join but the live calls times do not work, please reach out as i may consider running a second call time with enough numbers.
BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY
There are three payment plan methods to support your unique circumstances. Early bird available only for a limited time
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